okay i didn't even know that i had a comments section on my blog ... i assume many of you must have read my blog through your smartphones ahahaha. on the mobile version my blog looks like a regular blogger template with no modifications and a comments section, but the truth is i've modified my blog and changed the templates according to my fancy and that's very apparent if you're on PC. haha i'm so sorry, i really had no idea readers could comment and all, so i was very shocked to see these comments on my blog all of a sudden because i have no way for people to reach out to me directly on this platform - i don't have an ask.fm account, i don't have a chat box or anything, i don't have a comments section enabled here in my customised blog template. but it's really really nice receiving comments because it means people do actually read what i have to say and want to interact back with me on a more personal level across technology screens, and i like that. it kind of warms my heart and that was what i woke up to this morning, so thank you all for making my morning less harder to wake up to than usual. ^*^

alright so the screenshot above is cropped out from my web browser on my laptop (because i'm in school ... and it's break time), and these are the three comments that i woke up to that made my morning. well, the human who wrote the comment in the middle, you're way too kind and i actually sort of feel a little devilish if we were to meet irl and we stand side by side HAHAHA. okay, nicety is a good thing, so don't stop being you.

Lifelikethis, you're right and i do agree she really is rather pitiful. i know how it feels really. as mentioned in one of my earlier blog entries, i was in a long relationship once and i experienced so many incidents of infidelity from my then-boyfriend. that was quite a tumultuous, volatile, strained relationship — albeit the happy moments that i'm grateful for. it took me a while, but i finally got out. and i've never been happier.

also, can i just remind everyone once again that i took the initiative to befriend every single girl my then-boyfriend cheated on me with? so yes, to that girl A. that's starting all these drama, it IS possible for such girls in this position to be friends. why, on wednesday this week i even bumped into one of them at the mall near school, and we had a small, casual and friendly chat before parting ways. LOL. your point?

back to topic ... i feel like everyone should know that my sister has been tolerating and putting up with all the nonsense from that girl for quite some time now, and for my usually cool and calm sibling to rage so openly on social media platforms means that something really got to her. i'm the one that's normally bitchy and operating on a short fuse, so if i do rant and stuff, maybe not many will think of it as a big deal. but for my sister, it's way different. and as her older sibling (yes ... i'm the older one, please believe me), i feel like i have every right to defend and protect my only sibling. not just as a sister, but A. actually brought our family in to this matter unnecessarily ("pathetic upbringing", huh?), so i'm also speaking up as a daughter and as the oldest child in the family.

my sister is - there you have it, my sister. if i don't defend her, who will? don't be fooled by my sister's tattooed being (yes she has more tattoos than i do). on the inside, she's softer than soft-serve ice cream. she probably comes across as quite intimidating and thug-ish because of her tattoos in all these obvious places on her body, but don't be too quick to judge either of us. growing up, she was always the far milder one while i was more brash and outspoken. whenever someone tried to bully her in school, she would never speak up for herself and i always end up stepping in. i'm not being a bully or trying to pass off as some gangster here. i do all these because she is my sister, she is family, and i feel that is reason enough.

so while Lifelikethis actually makes sense and yes, it's probably never a good idea to take things up to social media or the internet, i just want to show this girl A. that just because someone keeps quiet about something for a long time, it doesn't mean you can continue your hurtful ways and being an idiot behind your computer/phone screen. also, it doesn't mean you don't grow up and take advice from well-meaning people (LIKE MY SISTER) who tried their utmost best to save you yet you were just so ungrateful about it. haven't you heard, never bite the hand that feeds you? lol.

okay break's over and before i get back to lessons i just want to say that i bear absolutely NO hard feelings towards any of my readers/commentators on my blog, just want to explain myself and get some other things regarding this stupid drama SHE started off my chest. i agree that i may be quite the bitch, but i'm usually quite apathetic about most things most days ... it's true. besides, if we can be friends, why not?

might blog later, xx

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UPDATE, 2:34 P.M.

you're right, she's deleted/made private all her blogs and social media platforms. but i like how right now we're supposed to be sparing a thought for her feelings when she didn't spare a thought for any of my sister's - or my family, for that matter - when she made all those rude and nasty comments, and all her unkind words in an email exchange with my sister.

this anon makes sense and i totally get what s/he is driving at. to be fair, as mentioned previously, this has actually been going on for quite some time already but neither my sister nor i made anything 'blown up' on social media or the internet. we were planning to just let it slide by and move on with our lives. then here comes A. with her "oh i feel better about myself right now" and those words of "pathetic upbringing", even getting the guy in question to confront my sister? LOL.